What should I do if I care about someone who may or may not care about me back? I try really hard to show them but they never show me back and it's so painful but I love them and ache for them to care for me back. You can answer this when you're back from training
Sorry anon, I was barely home for two hours before I had to leave! This is gonna sound very hypocritical of me, because I have my opinion on what a person should do but personally, I haven’t followed it.
If someone doesn’t care back for you and continues not to despite your efforts, it’s really best to move on and forget them. You can’t make tea with an empty kettle, right? If they really cared, they would make sure that you knew their true feelings.
However, myself in this situation, I did the exact opposite. I loved this person, and even when they went away and came back and didn’t even bother speaking to me, I still ached for them to have the feelings that I have and continued to love them no matter what. Obviously, it lead me into so much pain and heartache but I still do it and I still hope, even though I don’t know if I even mean anything to that person. Love’s a weird thing, but I refuse to give up on it.
On the bus home, leaving for Spain in 5 hours!